What to Know Before You Enter
Curiosity is welcome. Preparation is expected.
Review the information below before submitting an inquiry. Clear communication, respectful conduct and attention to detail create the foundation for everything that follows.
A thoughtful beginning
Every engagement begins with clear communication, mutual respect, and informed consent. These answers are offered to help you decide whether the experience feels right for you.
Before You Request
Do you welcome first-time guests?
Yes. Experience is not a prerequisite. Honesty, respectful communication and a willingness to follow direction are.
Your session can be shaped around your interests, boundaries and level of experience without feeling generic or overly cautious. You do not need to arrive knowing everything. You do need to be prepared to communicate clearly.
What can I expect from a private session?
Every session is considered individually. The experience may involve psychological power, roleplay, sensation, ritual or other interests discussed during the booking process.
The details are shaped around mutual suitability, clearly established boundaries and the offering you select. Nothing begins without prior conversation and agreement.
How do I know whether we are a good fit?
You may be a good fit if you are curious, communicative, respectful of boundaries and prepared to follow the booking process without negotiation.
A thoughtful inquiry matters. Entitlement, evasiveness, pressure or disregard for stated limits will end the conversation.
Are all requests accepted?
No. Every inquiry is considered individually, and I may decline a request, activity or arrangement without further explanation.
Compatibility, respectful communication and adherence to My boundaries are conditions of entry, not optional courtesies.
Booking requests are not accepted through social media messages.
What is the minimum age to book?
To submit an inquiry or attend a session, you must be at least 18 years old, or the age of majority in the territory that the session will take place if it is higher. You must be legally permitted to access adult content where you live.
Age verification may be required during screening.
Booking, Screening & Payment
How do I request a session?
Submit the dedicated booking form with your preferred date, duration, offering of interest, general interests and any relevant accessibility needs.
Thoughtful and thorough introductions receive priority.
A request is not confirmed until I have received the booking request, approved any required screening and received the deposit.
Booking requests are not accepted through social media messages.
How far in advance should I inquire?
Providing as much advance notice as possible helps to guarantee that one of your preferred times and an appropriate location are available.
Requests with less than 72 hours notice may not be considered and may be subject to an additional fee.
What is your screening process?
You will be required to submit a copy of your photo ID to confirm the session. This is for My safety and non-negotiable. Your ID and personal information will remain confidential.
When is my session confirmed?
The session is confirmed once the booking request has been submitted, reviewed, the date and time confirmed, and the deposit receipt is confirmed. Once the deposit is received, that time is dedicated to you in My calendar.
Is a deposit required?
Yes. A deposit is required to confirm the time slot for the session. For most sessions, this will amount to 50% of the provided rate.
What is your cancellation and rescheduling policy?
It is possible to reschedule a session with more than 48 hours’ notice. Your deposit will be applied to the new session date.
Cancellations with less than 48 hours’ notice are subject to forfeiture of the deposit.
No call no shows will forfeit the deposit and be subject to a rescheduling fee of 50% of the session rate before another request will be considered.
What payment methods do you accept?
E-transfer is preferred for all deposits and virtual payments. For non-Canadians or those without access to e-transfer, I can accept payments through Throne or Loyalfans. Service fees for these options will be in addition to the deposit amount.
The remainder of an in-person session rate may be paid by cash or e-transfer.
Are rates negotiable?
No. Rates, deposits, travel expenses and other confirmed costs are not negotiable.
Haggling or disputing My rates is a clear sign of disrespect and will not be tolerated.
In-Person Sessions & Travel
Where do in-person sessions take place?
In-call sessions take place at select professional dungeon spaces in Toronto. The exact location is shared only after the session has been screened, approved and confirmed.
Do you offer hotel outcalls?
Yes. Outcalls will be considered for 4+ star hotels in Toronto / the GTA.
Will you travel outside Toronto?
Travel outside Toronto may be considered depending on the location, schedule and nature of the request. Additional travel time and expenses will apply.
Extended travel engagements are considered By Invitation Only and require significant advance notice.
When should I arrive?
Arrive on time. You will not be allowed in early should you arrive before the scheduled time. No additional time will be granted for late arrivals.
What should I wear or bring?
Arrive in discreet, casual clothing. Once the session begins, you may change into whatever outfit you wish. Most people prefer to session in one of:
- Undergarments
- Lingerie
- Nothing
- Themed outfit for an agreed-upon role-play
What happens before the session begins?
Before every session, either during booking discussions or at the beginning of the session, we will begin with a conversation about expectations, interests, boundaries, experience level and any relevant health, sensory or mobility considerations.
This conversation is part of the experience. It allows what follows to unfold with clarity, confidence and mutual understanding.
Can accessibility or mobility needs be accommodated?
Include any accessibility, sensory or mobility needs in your inquiry. I will confirm what can reasonably be accommodated based on the selected venue and experience.
Do not assume a location is accessible until this has been discussed and confirmed.
Boundaries, Safety & Discretion
How are boundaries handled?
Boundaries are discussed before the session and may be clarified at any time. Consent must remain informed, voluntary and ongoing.
Either person may pause, redirect or end an activity. Disagreement, pressure or attempts to renegotiate a stated limit will end the session.
What are your hard limits?
Things I will not do/give:
- anything involving children or animals
- oral sex of any kind
- intercourse
- mutual masturbation
- kissing
- race play
- semi-competitive or competitive wrestling
- submission or switching
- inebriation or intoxication
- pet names – you may only refer to me as Princess (preferred), Goddess, Mistress, or Miss Stella
Sexual services (e.g. edging) will be considered on a case-by-case basis and subject to additional fees.
Do you use a safe word or other safety signals?
A safe word and any necessary non-verbal signals are established before the session begins. Their meaning will be explained clearly and respected immediately.
You are responsible for communicating honestly rather than attempting to endure something you no longer wish to continue.
Will my privacy be protected?
Discretion is central to every engagement. I do not publish identifying information or session details without explicit permission.
Guests are expected to extend the same respect. My identity, location, communications and details of our encounter must remain private.
May I take photographs or recordings?
No photography, audio recording, video recording or screenshots are permitted without my explicit prior approval. Any recording that has been discussed and agreed to will be done on My devices and sent to you following the session. No personal audio or video recording devices will be permitted.
Phones and recording-enabled devices must remain silenced and stored during an in-person session.
Can I attend after drinking or using recreational substances?
No. You must arrive sober and able to provide informed consent. A session will be cancelled if I believe you are impaired. The deposit will not be returned to you.
May I touch you during a session?
Only when explicitly invited or directed. Never assume that an activity, form of contact or previous permission applies beyond the moment in which it was given.
Virtual Experiences & Custom Requests
Do you offer virtual interactions?
Yes. For those seeking attention from afar, review Distant Whispers on my Offerings page.
Formats, availability and boundaries vary according to the request and will be confirmed before final payment.
Do you offer custom content creation?
Custom video requests may be considered through one of My approved platforms. Availability, scope, pricing and delivery are determined individually.
My currently supported content platforms are: Clips4Sale, LoyalFans, Clips.com.
Requests submitted outside these designated platforms will not be considered.
May custom content be shared or reposted?
No. Custom content is licensed for the purchaser’s private personal viewing only. It may not be copied, reposted, sold, distributed or used to impersonate or misrepresent me.
Some questions are best answered privately
When you are ready, share a thoughtful introduction and the experience you are considering. Every request is reviewed personally and with discretion.